sex only when he wants it...
My husband and I have been married for a little under a year, but we have been together for 6 years. He used to initiate sex all the time, and be upset with me for rejecting him (not that I said no all the time). I love my husband. He's an amazing person. But in the last couple years, the sex has slowed way down because he hasn't initiated it as much as he used to. I have no problems with initiating sex, but I have a huge problem with initiating sex and being rejected. Even worse is when I initiate it, he tries to have sex with me, but then the sex is forced/awkward/or he can't perform. I get so frustrated and angry every time. Whenever he initiates sex, I get myself in the mood real quick. I'm not asking for sex super often. Maybe 1-2 times a week, especially when I'm ovulating (I tend to feel more frisky in fertile week). It just really seems unfair.
I've talked to my husband about how this makes me feel. He really doesn't have much to say in response except he's sorry. He hardly masturbates. He doesn't watch porn. I know he's not cheating. It just happened again, and I'm laying here upset and he just gets up and moves on with his evening like nothing is wrong. I really don't know what to do anymore.
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