advice

Hey ladies I need some advice I used to love life, I like to go out and eat and just have fun now I'm finding myself to be a buzz killer I rarely go out I just feel like people my age are just worried about social media,parties,drinking and smoking while me I wanna travel, go see plays,museums, adventures. I just feel like likely I have just been setting in life  how do I fall back in love  with myself and how do I make sure that I don't settle and live up my potentials (do I make sense). I am in a dead end relationship for 2 years  been at the same job with no promotion same pay for 3 years and been in school for the longest I need help