not pregnant yet but I...

Have a question! So I had a miscarriage few years ago.. and I didn't tell anyone I was pregnant until I miscarried. My question is my husband I have been ttc and no one knows about it.. but I worry about getting everyone's hopes up, and then having to break the news to everyone, IF something were to happen(god forbid). Ladies, did you guys wait after your first trimester, or did you tell everyone right away? Please comment and let me know! Thanks 🙂