Can't stay wet?

Question

So before sex me and my SO makeout and touch eachother for a really long time, and by the time we start i'm always super wet. But this disappears in about a minute and then it starts to hurt? Like I dry right up and I can feel the walls in my vagina tightening, making sex really uncomfortable. I feel a little awkward bringing lube into it, but is that my only option?

Answer

Don't feel awkward about bringing lube into it, it should be pleasurable for both of you :)
I can't stay wet for long either, I need clitoral stimulation (well, we've only had penetrative sex a few times, starting about two months ago; but he has been fingering me for over a year now and I always touch my clitoris during this, it's the best way for me to orgasm), so I not only asked him to use lube, but we bought a little egg-shaped massager to try it out, as it's not very comfortable for him - or me - to touch my clitoris during peneration - and it's been very useful in making it feel better for me, and my boyfriend doesn't mind at all, he wants it to be as much pleasurable for me as possible :) And it was useful when I gave him a bj as well (tried it once that way, definitely going to use it for it all the time now), I was much more horny when I kept it between my legs (we tried him touching me during a bj before, but it's not a comfortable angle) and so more into it, so it was more pleasurable for him as well :)
So yeah, I would recommend something like this as well, if your boyfriend doesn't mind, just make sure he knows it's not about him but just the way your body works :)

Answer

I'm the same way. I think it's just a natural thing that everyone is different on. I felt awkward about introducing lube at first, but it made the whole thing better for both of us. You could even try to make it a part of foreplay, let him put it on you and you put it on him. It's more touching and less awkward. It might be awkward at first but it's totally worth it. Hope that helps!

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I'm only wet every now & then.. mostly I'm always dry, even when I'm turned on... idk why...

Can't stay wet?

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