Bothered by baby's gender

Was anyone bothered by their babies gender as in they were disheartened it wasn't a certain sex? I'm happy with either a boy or a girl but many of my friends say you must have a preference. I can understand maybe being a little disheartened for a minute if for example you have 2+ of the same sex and you might have hoped for the opposite but I'd never be upset or annoyed as my friends implied I should be😳 I'm honestly shocked a little , I was just wondering how others felt? I'm
 Not judging anyone either! X