Hi ladies!. I really don't know where to begin. First off I'm 21 studying for my psychology degree. I'm 19 weeks pregnant . I live in a dorm at the moment but only momentarily, besides the semester is about to end. My home is living with my boyfriend (the baby's father). So this is where it gets interesting I come home every weekend to work and spend time with my baby's father and then I come back to school Monday mornings. See my boyfriends house is a decent size but he lives with his parents and his brother, his aunt and her son live there as well including myself and him. The boys are young so that's not much of an issue I see them as my little brothers in a way. The issue is the limited privacy that we have. I feel so uncomfortable. My boobs hurt a lot and I can't walk around braless and sports bras don't really help. There's always a mess, the boys leave the seat up and sometimes don't flush, there's hardly some peace and quite for me to do my work or feel motivated. His parents buy food only when they're going to cook something up and the goodies are all sighed into by the boys. I feel disgusted because I don't know if they washed their hands before digging in or if they doubled dipped anything. I know I sound like a stuck up bitch but I just can't help it. I was the only child and my mom was the cleanest women I've met. Now my parents suggested we move in with them until we could get up on our feet but my boyfriend has nothing but negative thoughts to say about the idea. I feel insulted and not taken into consideration. Why is it that I had to change my lifestyle completely plus I'm pregnant making me even more moody and picky and he can't consider it even a little. Right now things are really tough and we can't seem to get up on our feet in order to move into our own place. So honestly what do we do at this point? I've tried to deal with it as best as I can but I don't want to bring my baby up around their type of lifestyle or have to worry about certain things not being washed right and my baby possibly getting sick when she's born. I feel like I'm over thinking it but I just want the best for her and for all of us to be comfortable