why doesn't sex feel nice for me?

So I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and I lost my virginity 3 weeks ago and we've pretty much been having sex everyday. Losing my virginity was horrible, first of all he couldn't even get it in because I was so tight and it just felt like I was being torn apart😂 he asked if he should stop I said no because it needs to happen otherwise we can't have sex😂 it hurt a few times after but now I just don't feel anything, not that it's not good I'm just not having an orgasm but I do when he fingers me. What is wrong?