Am I selfish?

Question

My husband went ahead and offered up our home as a living space for a friend of ours without consulting me. When my husband had then asked me later if that was ok, I told him it was out of the question. Although I aim to be very hospitable, AND I am good friends with this guy as well, I do not feel comfortable with sharing the same space with someone else (other than my husband), especially a male. What I didn't realize was that our future house was already offered. Now I'm in a position where I am the bad guy for saying no. What do I do? Is it weird to not open up my home to a friend when they just might need one? I feel both guilty and angry at my husband at the same time!

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No. It's your home, you shouldn't have to compromise your comfort to cater to someone else.

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I would be pissed if he just offered our home without asking me, because I enjoy my privacy, and especially if it's a male, but also it would depend on how long he's staying. If it's just a few days, then maybe I would chill out a bit, but if it was permanent then I'd tell the guy no myself if my hubby didn't have the guts to do it.

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He should have consulted with you first. Tall need to talk about it and then make a decision. It both of your home so that's not fair for him to do that. If that was me even know my husband said already told his friend he could stay there, if feel stuck between a rock and a hard place. I may consider him to stay only if he has good reason and he wasn't gonna stay too long

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Omg my husband did this when I was pregnant. His friend was such a burden. Lazy, always wanting to eat dinner with us, watch movies with us, ect.. It was family time (we have an older child) & he was always in our space. Finally I had enough after 1 1/2 months & with a baby Otw, I kicked him out (well had my husband handle it) so annoying!!

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You have the right to decline especially if it's a male friend and he hasn't consilted you first.

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It's your home too not just his, he doesn't get to make that choice without you.

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Could it just be temporary while he looks for somewhere else?

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Uh to bad so sad for that guy. If you don't feel comfortable then your husband should respect that. That is y'all domain for your husband and you to be together in. Not for you, your husband, and some random dudes.

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Like how long is the friend going to be living there? If it was a week I would say let it go. If it's for months, or permanent, I would say hell no.

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