something to look forward to..

About 2 mos ago, my husband and I started a new tradition of doing something you can't do during pregnancy when AF comes.  For example, last month we went wine tasting.  Of course, there's nothing we would like more than a BFP but I've found that it does give me something to look forward to after the big disappointment of another BFN.  This month, we have a wedding on 5/5, a couple days after AF is due.  We also planned to take a trip up the coast of Maine following the wedding.  IF this is not our month, we plan to upgrade to the hottub room.  How do you ladies lift your mood after a BFN?