Is it normal to feel really depressed if your "friend" keeps blackmailing you with suicide if you don't do what she wants? This has been going on for 8 years now 😭

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It's go to the stage where I am actually depressed and so drained. I'm suicidal myself and this is just tiring me out so bad 😭

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She's not really your friend if she's manipulating you that way. What she's doing is unhealthy for both of you and you need to put a stop to it. You are not responsible for her choices.

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No ones life is worth killing yourself. I was in the same situation but once I knew what that person was doing (manipulation) I decided to tell him that I do not care go for it and three years later he's still walking this earth. So for one she's not a real friend and two please don't feel sorry for someone who has the mentality of a child. If she really has issues like that tell her parents or tell her that you will tell her parents then see what she does.

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If this is happening you should probably call the police . It's bad for both of you

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Drop her like a bad habit.

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Drop her. I've been in this situation, she's manipulating you into doing what she wants and you're doing it. Drop her an tell her to get help. You'll feel so much better when you don't have that in your life.

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She shouldn't be doing that to you and clearly it's gotten to a point where it hurts you. Honestly I wouldn't keep this person around as a friend, I had a friend just like yours. She ruined my life and wasn't there when I was in her position.this is where I realized I shouldn't keep her around.

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That is not okay. I would get her help because that is very controlling and not something a friend should do

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Yes that is a toxic relationship and its bad for your health too. Your "friend" should not be putting that kind of pressure on you and go get some help.You are not responsible for her actions.

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You are not responsible for someone else's mental health.

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My best friend was bulemic, had multiple personality disorder, was extremely suicidal and decided to start doing drugs. She manipulated me in similar ways (due to her addiction and declining mental health) and I told her that because I myself was dealing with my own mental illnesses that our friendship had to end until she got the help she needed. She resented me for that, but in the end, after losing her best friends and herself, she got clean from her ED and drugs. Now we're BFF's again, and our friendship is a lot healthier than before.

It's not okay to be manipulated like this, and I think you should consider telling her to take a hike. Someone who constantly threatens suicide to get what they want will probably not commit it if you walk away. Just tell her you need space to help yourself and so does she, and once she does, you can be close friends again.

Is it normal to feel really depressed if your "friend" keeps blackmailing you with suicide if you don't do what she wants? This has been going on for 8 years now 😭

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