Two years ago my fiancé and I lost our only child together at 5 mos. due to my "incompetent cervix". We waited 6 mos. to try again and 1 1/2 years later- nothing :( my reproductive system since delivering her has been a mess. Irregular periods and painful sex were just the beginning. I've had BV after I lost her, and now two years later I find out that I had a ruptured cyst, BV (again!!), and HPV positive. They are referring me to a specialist because I was told my PAP results also showed abnormal cells. This is heartbreaking for us because we have terrible baby fever, and now I'm scared for what could happen next. Colposcopy, cervical cancer, ??? Has anyone out there ever been through this and still been able to conceive?