what about me?

So I'm wondering if any of you have any tips of how to slow a guy down and prevent them from ejaculating so quickly during sex? I lost my virginity in October and since him I've slept with 4 different guys.. the only one who would last long had a very soft penis so I couldn't feel it but the other 3 felt so good and just when I feel like I'm ready to orgasm they blow and it's so disappointing.. the worst one literally put it inside of me and pushed 4 strokes then came it was so awkward I didn't know what to say 🙄🙄🙄