Should I be upset that my husband wants to know the gender but I don't?

I wanted to wait until delivery to know the gender but I compromised to do a gender reveal around 6 months. He STILL wants to know. I told him it won't be a gender reveal if he knows already. I'll be surprised and he won't. How is that even logical?

And I'm pissed because he knows I really wanted this and I even compromised. I'm upset because I know he'll slip up and accidentally say he or she when referring to our baby. I asked him why he would want to take that from me? He said its not just my baby. 😠😠😠😠😠

I never said it was. I just want to be surprised that's all. I'm not asking him much. Just to wait to find out the gender, that's it. He's being a real fuck head about it and it is really pissing me off. I'm already hormonal and he wants to irritate me more. Ugh. I don't know what to do. The angry, stubborn, bullheaded part of me wants to say well fuck you we're not knowing until birth like I originally fucking planned, end of conversation. But I know I can't and it would just make shit worse.