Am i wrong or selfish ?

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My fiance wants to go to his dads house for the night, am i selfish for saying no because this is our last few days together before the baby gets here. And we havent been spending alot of time together because i was working and staying at my family members house.
 For the past couple months. And hes been at his moms house. I stuck should i let him go or not?

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You shouldn't have to "let" him go see his dad 😐.

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I think that's a little unnecessary. If hubs asked me to stay at his parents for the night I'd have more than a few words for him while being very pregnant 😂

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If I were close to delivery, like within 3 weeks of my due date, and my hubs dais he wanted to go spend the night with his parents, then is tell him to go, and have my mom come stay with me, which he would hate. If he thinks he needs time away from me when I'm very pregnant, then we have a problem. He should not want to leave my side for ANYTHING after like 37 weeks.

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Based on your other comments about his behavior, he sounds shady. I personally would be ticked a grown ass man(assuming you're both adults) suddenly wants to stay the night for no reason "at his dad's" when I could go into labor at any time. I'd tell him fine go, but dont expect me to go out of my way to get ahold of you if i go into labor.

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Why would he be spending the night?  Will they be drinking?  I wouldn't feel comfortable with it.  What happened if you go into labor?

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I would honestly be a little upset. It all really depends on the situation. Like, my DH goes to his dad's house every day at 4 pm (when they're both off work) and they drink one beer together and just hang out on his dad's back porch. DH comes home an hour later, around 5 pm. So I can understand wanting to spend time with his dad, but staying the night?  When he has a perfectly good bed at home? I'd want to know why he couldn't come home later that evening. Plus in your comments you say he put a lock on his phone that you don't have access to? Idk, sounds suspicious.

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Why do he wanna stay the night? Is he really old, sick or will be alone and that's not normal? If so than let him if he wanna go hang and drink he'll no my father in law pays bitches to come over and have sex so my husband knows not to ask and ur about to pop why the f!ck he wanna be gone what if it breaks and he is sleep and doesn't here his phone at his dad

Am i wrong or selfish ?

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