Am i a bad person?

Question

Right well me and my SO have been together for 4 year and been TTC for 6 months and his brother has just had a baby with his girlfriend and they were only together a month when she found out she was pregnant and split up so many times during the pregnancy i feel like a bad person because i just feel jealous of how easy it is for some people dont get me wrong their baby is adorable and theyre good parents. I guess it just hurts that people who arent in a proper relationship ended up with an unplanned pregancy in the blink of an eye but yet people who are actually trying it takes so long anyone else feel like this or just me ?

Answer

You're not a bad person. I think the same thing. My husband and I have been trying for a year. One of his friends just had their 3 unplanned baby and he and his girlfriend were both very upset because they couldn't afford another child. It was so hard to listen to them complain when they've gotten pregnant 3 times and I can't get pregnant once.

Answer

You'll feel anger and jealousy until you get your BFP. I'm sorry to say it but it's true. I have a niece that is barely 19 and in the 5 years I was TTC she had 3 kids. Living at home with her mother. Omg I would cry I'd be so angry. I hope it gets easier for you. Baby dust!!!

Answer

Completely normal I felt that way about my brother we had the house the family car we were stable as,ttc for 4 years and they just swooped in in but it wasn't Untill I let go of all that I got preg oh and the catch we are now flatting and not as stable as we thought at the mo life does things weirdly but it does happen just need hope and faith (of what ever you believe in)

Am i a bad person?

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