Vibrator/dildo- harm relationship?

Question

So I bought a vibrator the other day.. It's about 4 inches long so could be used as a dildo too. Anyways, by BF and I used it while having sex the other day-- oh my goodness best orgasm I've ever had.. And it's so much easier to masturbate. But now my BF is saying things like "that better not replace me now" or feeling guilty that he can't get me to orgasm like the vibrator can... Any insight on how to go about implementing this new toy in our sex life? Thanks!!

Answer

My husband loves our vibrator because it makes it easier for me to cum especially while we're having sex.
Let him use it on you more than you do, so he feels like he's not being replaced. Show him where to put it, how you like it, etc. And if you're into it, let him watch you masturbate.

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Talk to him. Women's orgasms are necessary for conception, while a mans orgasm is necessary for conception, seeing as it's the sperm lol. But we do have the capability to orgasm, and sometimes we need a little extra help. It's not as simple as just penetration all the time or in a man's case to just rub one out. The woman's orgasm actually helps the ejactulation of the man to almost carry the sperm in an upwards direction into the Fallopian tubes where for egg is at. If it does bother him enough for him to not want to use it, you could use other forms of pleasure that he can give you. Most of your nerve receptors are around and outside your vaginal opening. Even if anal is not an option, it doesn't hurt to experiment with light touch around your anus. All very sensitive areas that can make a big difference. Or even with his fingers have him make a beckoning "come here" sort of motion inside you with his fingertips on the ventral side of your vagina. Over all, just talk to him. Maybe show him. He isn't going to know right off the bat what feels good and what doesn't, it is your body and if you masturbate and have explored yourself a little, guidance doesn't hurt any.

Vibrator/dildo- harm relationship?

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