dilemma! advice please ladies!
So i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about 2 weeks ago. We were long distance. Him in Maryland and i in Texas. We were visiting each other back and forth for awhile and then it stopped. I last saw him for my bday sept 2015 when he came to texas. And the last year being together so much sh*t happened and his skeletons came out the closet, past coming to haunt him. And it was putting a strain on him and it was overwhelming to me. Because he lied about alot of things as well as kept some important things hidden from me. Like the fact that he had another kid. An he told me he felt like i didnt need to know about him because he doesnt claim him. But he pays child support for him. And then there were 3 incidents of women i had to question him about. And he would say im searching for sh*t. And i kinda was because of him previously lying and keeping info from me when ive been open and honest with him about everything. Anything he wanted to know and asked i answered. But anywho, So i dont think he ever physically cheated on me. Because these women were women he met in groups on facebook. And stayed in different states. It was just the thing of talking to other females. From screenshots they sent me he never ever spoke sexual with them. But he would say things that would make it seem like he or they were emotionally attached. And i felt disrespected. And i had had enough. So i broke up with him blocked him on everything. But i forgot about email and he sent me an email apologizing...and i do miss him like hell. We started off as bestfriends before dating. Known him since 2010. And we hooked up in 2014. So i care deeply for this man. But idk. But here is the dilemma. I wanna get back with him and us move forward with our plans on him moving to texas. But i met this guy and i like him forreal. I mean nothing serious but i like him. We have chilled alot and it feels easy being around him. And yes we have been sexually active..(havent had sex since sept 2015 so it was much needed) and its amazing. He is a cool guy indeed. So im like dang i dont wanna kick him to the curb if i decide to take my ex back. Cause i want him back. But idk. Im scared he will f*ck up. But the new guy, he could be the good guy i really need in my life. But i know we arent at that point of being gf/bf we havent been chatting that long. Let alone to know where this is going. If we are just fwb or what. Idk ladies what to do... 🤷🏾♀️
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