Feelings after loss of baby in ectopic pregnancy

I was 8 weeks pregnant and just recently lost my baby and a tube. I'm going through so many emotions. I am leaning on my friends, family, and my child's father to get through this together. We both are struggling with this...it's my first child and is his third. I feel like a failure but I know not to blame myself..because it was something that I couldn't have changed and it happened with no-one at fault. I just want to get others opinions on if they have gone through this or know anyone that has. Thank you.