I want to start a little family with my boy friend! I love him and the formalities don't matter to me. It doesn't matter if marriage or the carriage comes first they both will happen and all with the same person. I've been wanting a kid for a little over a year now. More so now since I see a lot of people having kids, I guess. I have a god son and holding him makes me want to have one even more than ever before! Not to mention people tell me all the time I should have one now because of my age. I'd have to be a tad more responsible with my finances, something I'm working on now. I mean, I know how to prioritize and save only if the need be though. My boy friend wants us to wait a year. I want one now. I am waiting because I'm following his lead. I don't want him to feel trapped or like I'm forcing him into anything. And I truly don't know if I want a kid because everyone around me is having one. It's not like I'm lacking love. I have the perfect boy friend and a two dogs, so I'm good. Do I feel a little empty..like I want more. Maybe. I'm not sure. What should I do? Wait or jump on this now?