Ok so when I was fourteen I made the dumbass decision of dating a college boy and everything was good at first but soon turned bad every time I saw he would demand sex and abused me when we alone even in public caused a scene and didn't care and even went to choking me and I have really bad asthma and really tonsils so I nearly died twice then one day I denied sex and he molested me and got me pregnant with not one but twins and he kicked me in my stomach when I was two months and then I finally left him the next boyfriend was just flat out a asshole constantly call me fat and a whale and telling me that nobody wants me and even called while he was having sex with other girls BUT the boyfriend I have now is my everything he makes sure I have every I need sat thru hospital visits and bloodworks (I have slight diabetes) and tells me everything that I'm beautiful in my own way and that I shouldn't care what people think he has shown me the good in life and I have known him for two years as a best friend and finally got together three months ago now we live together completely comfortable with each other and love is unconditional in our apartment I couldn't ask for more I don't have to cook all the time he does anything that needs fixing he does it with no complaints all he asks for is for me to love him back because he has been through a lot too