movement

I'm stressing all the time over my baby moving... everyone else's baby seems to most consistently and quite a lot. I only have days were my baby moves a lot and then she slows down a lot then goes back to moving heaps and it's so stressful to know when to worry and when not to worry. My midwife told me not to do the 10 counts as it's out of date and I have anterior placenta but I can feel movements so I don't see why I'm being told sometimes I can't feel when she moves when other days I feel the baby moving completely fine. Idk what to do 😭😭😭Also adding I'm not very active I'm in bed pretty much all day as have hyperemesis so it's not like I'm missing any potential movements...
EDIT : I'm 27+2 sorry to sound so annoying/ stressed but just had a friend lose her baby after no movement for 3 days so I'm really not sure when to worry :(