Should I wait for him??

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Ok so my boyfriends Mormon and he's gonna go on a 2 year mission in a few months... we're both 18 and have been together for a year and love each other tons. But, we are each other's first relationship, so I guess my guestion is should I promise to wait for him? Or see other people while he's gone and possibly get back together when he returns once I see what else is out there? Or is there another option??

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I don't think it's all that.... realistic... to see other people and then jump right back into the relationship when he gets back. If you love him, wait. I know it will be hard, but relationships are not easy. It's up to you though.

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Just go with the flow. Don't set up expectations when in reality, a lot can happen in two years.

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If you really love him, wait. I waited two years for my now husband and now we are happily married. It's definitely not easy but it's worth it, wishing you all the best!!

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Being a missionary myself, I would want my honey to wait for me. It's all up to you, but if you really love him the way you say, you'll wait. Love doesn't take breaks because of a little distance. It'll only hurt him knowing you're with someone because he's out doing something that he loves. It's up to you.

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If you truly love him and deep down know he's meant for you, wait for him. But if you're second guessing that and think there might be something better out there, don't wait for him. Don't lead him on. Go out and search the ocean! ♥️

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If you want to be with him and love him you don't have to break up unless you know it won't work. Since it would be a long distance relationship, all communicate, trust and talk as often as possible. But only you know what to do.

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If you truly love him, wait for him. But if you are curious about what else is out there because this is your first relationship, then I would suggest you talk about going your separate ways. He might agree that it would be for the best because of the time away from each other but don't be surprised that he doesn't want to reconnect once he returns. This decision is between your two and once it's made you have to stick to it. A person's emotions is nothing to play with.

Should I wait for him??

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