life wonders

So I just recently started exercise and well my sexual drive is so much higher than it use to be. I constantly see myself asking my husband for sex. He told me it makes him feel like he's not doing something right, like he's not doing it right the first time in his words. He doesn't agree on me getting any toys so I don't have to keep asking him, and it's not him because he always takes care of my needs and makes sure that I finish a few times before he does. 
so what do I do?