Here's the thing about rape

So, there has been a topic asking our opinion about whether a certain situation was rape. I do think that it is hard to make judgements based on a case study with not much detail, but I think a discussion is always interesting - I guess it shows current views.
What did concern me was the amount of times I heard something like 'maybe she made him think she wanted it' 'maybe he was too drunk to stop' 'if she said no why is she hanging around him'.
So I just wanted to share this:
Please please read.