I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect me sometimes. We work together and live together, and it can be hard sometimes. He told everyone at work when I burned bacon (I found out when a co-worker joked about it later), which isn't a big deal. He told a group of people at work (including a manager)that I cheat to get great stats (which wasn't true). He makes me the punchline to his jokes sometimes, told me I am manly, and (when trying to tell him that the reason I can be irrational sometimes is because I was abused as a child) he told me that I didn't have it that bad. I really, truly love him, and I know that he loves me and cares about me, but sometimes he makes me feel like he doesn't. Advice?