Marriage... Over??? Kinda long... I'm so sad!!!

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We have been married 4 years and together for almost 6. We have two little boys together ages 5 and 2. This past year has been really stressful. Dealing with addiction, money, bills... Etc. We don't communicate anymore. I tell him how I feel and he just shrugs it off like he doesn't even care. He travels for work so he's never home. He hardly ever calls me when he's gone. I text him and call him all the time. I tell him I love him and just little things like that so he knows I'm thinking about him. He never does that. I seriously feel so unwanted and I feel ignored. I'm lonely and I have cried so much lately. We have been fighting a lot. I open up to him and tell him these things and everytime I get the same response... NOTHING. Is my marriage over? I don't know what else to do??? I can honestly say that I've tried. Sorry just have no one to talk to and need some advice or something.

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Don't give up!!! Pray about it. Marriage does not have to die!! I will pray for you and that you'll find the love you once had in him ! Don't give up. Fight for each other. Marriage is two people refusing to give up on one another!! Don't be a statistic!

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Tell him you feel like your marriage is falling apart- you've told him what you need from him- and ask him if he needs something more from you- tell him that you need to go to counseling  because nothing ever changes and counseling might save your marriage

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I can't tell you that it's over but I can tell you that it takes two to make a marriage work and if he is unwilling then it's not going to work.  If you guys are fighting all the time that's not a healthy situation for the kids and after all they should be the most important factors in this.  I hope this helps.  I understand what you are going through as I have been there myself .  if you need to talk feel free to contact me.

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If he has no desire to change or get better, after yrs...I'd prly start preparing to leave. Unless you think your strong enough to deal with him torturing you until he maybe one day comes around. Or he leaves. Especially with him traveling everywhere. You need to sit him down n see if he could at least do marriage counseling.

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We have just been through some of the same! addiction can really change a person and leave them incapable of true emotion cab be a long road but relationship cab be restored

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I'm going through the same thing. Im in the middle of a divorce because he would not get help for his pill addiction. We went through marriage counseling and I'll I ask him to do was to get help for his addiction as a wife I would support him in everyday. Even the counselor said she could get him help. I told him I would take the kids and leave if he didn't get the help. He looked at me and said that he would never leave the pills. I pick up my stuff and left the next day. It's been 5 months and I'm happy with my decision.

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Addiction? Really sorry to hear what your going though i know first hand what addition can do to couple as me and my parter has just been thought it 2 long years of fighting luckily we got thought the other side JUST! But it was a hard road we talked alot instead of fighting which is hard when you both think your right! I pray some how you can sort this out dont beat yourself up about xx

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I'm going through the pretty much exact thing. And as much as I'm telling myself my marriage isn't over I know deep down it is. Your circumstances may be different and maybe with counsling and communication you guys can fix it. Best of luck!

Marriage... Over??? Kinda long... I'm so sad!!!

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