Jealous?

Question

Does anyone get jealous of other women when they fault their pregnancy/children? Here lately I don't want to be around mothers who have children or who are pregnant. I had a lost in Oct 2014 and I feel I was robbed of enjoying my pregnancy and being a mom right now. I'm hoping these feelings go away. Anyone else feel like me or does this make me a bad person?

Answer

No this absolutely does NOT make you a bad person. People who have not been in your situation will try and make you feel 'guilty' for feeling this way but please don't let them. Grief is a strange process and feelings of jealousy and not wanting to be around others are a natural part of that and you cannot help these feelings. I only learned this after endless therapy sessions trying to deal with my losses with professional help. Do not under any circumstances let anyone tell you how you should and shouldn't feel. But please get help for your own wellbeing - you owe it to yourself. All the best!

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You don't know their story either. I've had 5 losses and more sadness than I hope abyone sees in a lifetime. Feel free to be jealous but it won't help you; have you thought about therapy or self help?

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