A few extra pounds...

My boyfriend has always been pretty fit. I don't like chiseled, muscle men, just in shape with maybe a couple extra lbs for snuggling. In the past year or so he's gained more weight than usual. He changed jobs: first he was doing HVAC, always on his feet doing something. Then he found an Amazing, better paying, less dirty job and he loves it. The only downside is that he pretty much babysits a building. No real work. I still love him but I'm not as attracted to him which makes me feel HORRIBLE! I'm dealing with my own weight issues, I'm trying to Gain weight. I don't know what to do or say or just leave it alone šŸ˜•