Orgasm issues.

When my husband and I have sex I can't get there. Safe to say I have never had an orgasm in my life through intercourse! I need a vibrator or he needs to go down on me (oral) but I take a while. Anyone else suffer from this? Any tips? Anyone use anything to get them there? I feel so bad for him because he thinks it's him but it's definitely not. Sex feels great but not enough, I just don't know how to fix it.. HELP 😭