Lady parts after birth

Hi ladies,
My little boy is now 6 weeks old. I have been astonished how much pain and discomfort I have suffer whilst my vagina repairs from the birth.
I had some internal stitches. They are long gone but my VJ still looks red and angry and I'm scared to have sex with hubby.
Also my cliteris has lost most of its sensitivity - will that ever return?!
Anyone else experiencing the same? Any advice?