when did you have a miscarriage?

I know this is a touchy subject and I apologize. But if anyone is willing to share at how many weeks pregnant they were when they had a miscarriage I would appreciate your input. I am currently 9 weeks pregnant and I have had PCOS since I was 15. Wondering when this anxiety over a miscarriage will go away :/ 
Update:
Thank you SO much to all the lovely ladies who responded to this and provided input and kind thoughts. I know it isn't easy. I appreciate you all. ❤️