sex after miscarriage...?

I had a positive test two weeks ago..that same day I stared bleeding..so I went to the ER to find out what was going on. The doctor said I had two infections going on, which were the possible causes of a miscarriage. I ended up bleeding and passing clots until that following Friday..sorry for the TMI. My boyfriend since has been wanting to be intimate, and we did twice, but it just doesn't feel right to me anymore. He still pushes it even after I tell him I don't want to. I told him it doesn't feel right to me, and that I don't want to do anything really until I feel I have healed. He thinks Im just not attracted to him, which isn't the case at all and agrees that he doesn't understand how I feel. I can't help but cry every time we talk about it. 

Is it weird that I feel that way or completely normal? How long did it take for some of you ladies to get through it and how did your SO go about it?