Without getting into details, I don't have any family support at all. My parents are emotionally neglectful and we just aren't close. Everything I have, I've had to get on my own. They haven't even come to see my house, except one time when they were passing through, and they only stayed five minutes. Moving was really hard because it was just my husband and I doing everything. I lost my security deposit bc I didn't even have  time to deep clean my apartment when I moved out. Planning my wedding was really hard because I didn't have any help or support from anyone but my husband. My parents refused to even give me addresses of family members, and then they refused to go to the store to get their tuxes measured and fitted. 

It's just been really going through life with no family support, and I'm terrified that I won't be able to do it with a child/children. My in-laws will help some, but they can't babysit or anything like that. I have one sibling that refuses to talk to the entire family. I haven't seen him since my wedding. 

Has anyone else had a family of their own without any help? Any tips to make it work?