Would this piss anyone else off?

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My husband and my MIL were on the phone last night, and my MIL told my husband that she was going to come visit us on Tuesday for the whole day, and I could just "go to the store or something."
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Like she is making plans to send me away so she can have alone time with my 2 month old child. 
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I told my husband, no she isn't, so he told her that she could visit that evening when he got home from work. 
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Was I overreacting, or would you be mad too? She always says she just wants to give me a break, but I'm not asking for a break! And let's be real here, she's not really trying  to help, she's just trying to get my baby all to herself! He's only 2 months old, I'm not comfortable leaving him alone with her or anyone but his dad yet. I wish she would just back the F off!

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I love when my in-laws want to come and babysit so my husband and I can do things like grocery shopping or going out to lunch.

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Lol his mom tried doing that when she was a couple days old. All I wanted was for her to leave me and the baby and our family bonding time the fuck alone 🙃 my boyfriend went back to work and his mom would come over and watch her sleep....like why are you over here then? I'm perfectly capable of taking care of my own baby and no I don't any help. This is the hardest thing for me to adjust to she's always trying to get alone time with the baby and send me away and it's just annoying. I don't mind bringing her over there on our terms but she makes my boyfriend feel like shit and throws a huge fit if we don't come see her atleast once a week now and it's always on the weekend when it's our only time together ( i went back to work full time 2  weeks after I'm a nanny so I could bring her with me but still) ugh I could go on and on 😭 I feel your pain

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Yep mine tried doing it when my Lo Waa 2 weeks old and carried on about me not wanting to leave him

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That would piss me off too. Baby is yours she can spend time in front of you too

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I don't think you overreacted. Luckily, my MIL could say she's coming over but she would never show up. Lived in our apartment for 4 years and she's never been here once. I don't trust her to watch my baby girl. My husband or one of my siblings or my mom are the only ones I trust. My SIL (husbands sister) has a 2 year old and she just puts her in front of the tv all day. She can barely take care of her kid so she can't be trusted, my MIL can barely take care of herself and my FIL is not allowed for reasons I won't get into on here. And on a kind of side note, why does everyone keep saying I need a break? My break is when my husband gets home and takes her for a bit. I don't need a break until she's older and running around like crazy.

Would this piss anyone else off?

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