wtf is wrong with men??

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Debra
My boyfriend has been an asshole since he got laid off because he was upset he wasn't the one providing for me and two kids. He just lost a truck because we couldn't afford the note on it. He was buying it from his sister so it didn't hurt his credit. I work a good job and was able to provide for us just fine between food, bills, diapers, and anything else we needed. He just found out he go hired at a company he used to work for that he got laid off from last year and has been acting normal again. We barely had sex the entire two months or two and half months he was off work. Last night was the first time, since before he got laid off from the last job, that I felt "connected" to him. The sex didn't hurt it was AMAZING, but I hurt afterwards and am hurting today. I feel like he was so distant. He would blame me for cheating, call me names and make me feel bad, picked on the kids and not do anything around the house. Now he cooks, cleans, doesn't talk mean to me, and does so much more with the kids like plays video games and stuff. Not to mention I'm 17 weeks pregnant so my hormones are crazy. 
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Mr

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Sounds like losing his job losing the truck and not being able to do all the things he considered a mans job (provide for his family pay bills and work) sent him into and a slight depression glad that he found work again and turned back into the sweet loving man he was before 

VH

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So when times get tough he abused you and your kids. Do you think life will always be easy from here on out? If that's how he acts in the worst of times then he's not worth it in the best of times. Respect yourself

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Bria • May 28, 2017
Well said. We women allow love to blind us. Just because he lost his job was no excuse to lash out. period.... He didn't apologize either did he? My partner got on so too. Good thing we didn't marry. I gave him so many chances for him to spit in my face. As women we got to respect our selves