Time for new Ob/GYN

Tiffani
So back in January after my period I had horrible pain around where my overaris are to the point where I could not stand or sit and at one point the pain was so bad my knees went weak. Luckily my in-laws were staying with me for a few days and they took my daughter with them while I went to lay down. It wasn't a cramping pain but a sharp stabbing pain and I didn't bleed so I don't believe it was a miscarriage. After 6 hours the pain began to subside and I could walk a little. I went to er that night and they couldn't find anything the pap that came back was normal but they didn't do any sonos or scans. They said check with my obgyn if pain does not go away by Monday. Which it did and as I don't like going to dr when I am feeling fine I didn't call them. Well then my period in February came a week late my period in March lasted 10 days and my April one was very light and may well it didn't come at all there has been some spotting and cramping sore breast and fatigue. When I take pregnancy test they all come back negative. I went to my obgyn and asked if they could do a test and pap and said that they don't believe I need them and just change my birth control which I stated I did not want to take anymore bc I don't like the side efffects but I was completely ignored. What do y'all think am I crazy or is there something wrong and should I just find another dr.?