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My friend asks me to watch her kids often , 2yr old an 6 month old, but I also have two 7yr olds , a 2yr old and am almost 23 weeks pregnant ...is it wrong for me to say no ? I feel bad but most days I'm just beat from my own kids and to add two more seems like insanity lol but let me add she asks late like 6 or 7pm so she can go out ...opinions ?

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I'd say no. You have your own family to worry about, not to mention yourself. Say no or she'll keep taking advantage. You have your hands full! Her kids, her responsibility.

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Don't be afraid to say no. I am 33 weeks pregnant and used to watch my friends 4 kids often. I told her that I no longer can do it that it was too much for me to deal with hers and mine.

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Be honest and let her know it's too much for you right now.

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She doesn't get mad, but I feel like that's the only reasons she calls me sometimes 😖😖

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I would tell her no and just be honest with her that it's too much for you to handle at the moment.

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Be nice but say u you need to rest as well and if she is a friend she will understand.

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Tell her no.

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Just let her down gently. It must be nice having someone to fall back on but it's not your responsibility. Next time tell her it's probably going to be the last time since you're preggers and chasing kids of your own you need any rest/sirenity you can get right now.

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I mean, I know how it is to want to go out for a break but I don't even get a break lol ..

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