Sex after giving birh

Anonymous because I'm embarrasses to ask this lol im 6 months with my first. I was just wondering if your vagina goes completely back to normal after birth and if so, how long does it take? Some women say they go back tight and normal as ever, sometimes even tighter right after birth but I'm starting to thinking it's because they're embarrassed to say their vagina has changed. Because my mother told me hers always got a little bigger, I figured the honesty is because well, she's my mother and doesn't care about being emarrased or judged by me lol. Any who, no judgment here. I'm just nervous about it and if it will feel different different for my husband. Please no rude comments towards me or any other ladies who comment. Respect honesty because it may be hard for some ladies to share! And I apologize it this has offended anyone