My husband has not had a day off in 2 weeks because he is a chef and the other cook quit so now he is alone until they hire someone else.  We haven't spent any time together, we used to have the same days off. Well today was the first time he came home early (4pm) and I came home at 7pm. His uncle told him he wanted to go to Shoprite and do a BBQ so they were sitting outside in the cold, talking and drinking from 5pm-11pm. I went out there a couple of times and the last time I went out there looking for him he told me 'he needs space' so I have him his space! Soon after 11:30pm his uncle comes in the house and falls asleep on our couch and leaves my husband out there to clean everything... while he's doing this he calls his mom in Costa Rica... he just came to bed right now (1:15am) and fell right asleep, he seen me crying and gave me some kisses but he's a little drunk so fell asleep. I'm just so sad that we didn't spend any time at all lately and we had tonight and he spent it all with his 61 year old baby needy uncle 😭 idk I'm just so upset right now and idk when the next time will be that I get to see him... I always visit him at work now because he comes home at 11:30pm now and wakes up and goes back to work again... Feeling like a very emotional cancer right now...