So judgmental/hypocritical!!! 😒

I have a friend that is a mom of 2. She got pregnant right out of high school. Her and her husband have put themselves in massive debt because they bought a new home, gutted it, redid the entire inside, bought 2 new cars, one of the cars was hit but was totally fine to drive, they didn't want to drive a car with a big dent in the front so they got a different one. And now they have 2 kids. That's all fine and whatever, but she constantly is mom shamming all the other girls that we know that have gotten pregnant. Complaining that they put their wants before their needs because they go camping to Lake Powell and eat out sometimes. Yes, those families aren't using their heads either because they are in way worse financial situations than my other friend because her husband makes about $21 an hour and the other families don't have jobs, but still. Her getting that house and redoing it and the new cars were wants and not needs!! The could have started smaller and less expensive! They didn't need brand new everything! And she is always pushing me to get pregnant so her kids and mine can be friends and she knows that I am trying. She is always pushing it, but then when I talk to her that I might be she is always telling me I'm crazy and that I'm not. She even looked at me one time and said "you're never gonna get pregnant huh?" Like, wtf?!! Just because you can reproduce like a rabbit and I'm struggling doesn't mean you need to be such an ass. And now she just told me today they will be trying for a 3rd baby soon and her baby boy she just had isn't even 5 months yet and she has complained about how hard 2 babies are since he was born. I know kids are hard, but you did that to yourself and if you think 2 is hard 3 will only be worse right?! She is definitely someone I need to cut out of my life right?! How would you handle something like this??