not sure if he has a low sex drive or just isn't interested
this is going on like the fourth week of
my boyfriend and I not having sex, I can't even remember the last time he gave me head or even something as simple as biting my neck or licking my boob, I'm not sure if like… he has a low sex drive because when we first started having sex (I made him wait like seven months before we had sex for the first time so he was kind of anticipating it) we had it like every day we were together, then when I left for college I was coming home every weekend and then it was once, sometimes twice a weekend, and like I just figured because you know that was the only time we saw each other so it was the only chance we have. We live together now and have roommates so we have to be careful about when we do it that way no ones around to hear and we don't bother anyone, but we both work at night and we're there all day and everyone else will be gone and he won't touch me like that, and WEEKS will go by before he does. And I know that I could be the one to initiate sex, but even when I'm in the mood I'm just really shy about being the initiator. I tried once, put on lingerie and everything and he wasn't in the mood, so I was shy before but I've felt kind of embarrassed since then and because of that it's made me not want to either. the other day we were taking a buzzfeed quiz that was like how well do you know your partner in the sheets, something like that, and one of the questions was like "who has the higher sex drive" and he chose the answer 'about the same' and I kind of just watched over his shoulder like 😐 i don't know, I feel like it's possible he doesn't have a high sex drive and just because I don't initiate but I never say no to sex he just assumes that we're good, but it also kinda makes me feel unwanted and like he isn't as attracted to me as he was before 😕
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