HOLDING OUT ON SEX FOR A YEAR

I recently moved to another country to study abroad and i will be there for some years with some visitations back home. Well the problem is me and this guy arent official and neither of us is capable of doing long distances dating (but id give it a chance).Anywho about sex i havent had it in a 11months...the guy and i have been active sure but he's never entered me. I dont pleasure myself through any type of action but i tried a few days to masturbate with my fingers and my shit was tight as hell, anyway what to do to not be tight for when me n him do it a yr from now or will i have to deal with it, cause its tighter and it hurts way more than when i lost my virginity. And im not looking to have sex/ or form a romantic relationship with the opposite sex in this country i came entirely with the soul purpose of completeing my education and getting my future on track.