choosing god parents 👀

Okay so a little back round knowledge, I told my fiancé that he could choose The Godfather and I would choose the godmother but he has chose one of his cousins who I do not on any means get along with. He is rude and dirty and highly inconsiderate. Even this weekend he came to town to hangout with us but I was super sick all day and night with morning sickness and he got all pissy that I wouldn't go to the lake with them. He called me lazy and said all I do is sit around and make my fiancé work and do everything for me. Which isn't at all true. He ended the conversation by implying I was a piece of shit. I'm growing a baby. This shit ain't easy. I ended up crying because I'm a big bundle of hormones. But anyways should I ask him to choose somebody else? Or just let somebody I wouldn't even want near my child be The Godfather ??