A breakout dilemma

So I have a serious problem of picking my pimples to "make it go away faster" well a few weeks ago I got a blackhead by the corner of my lip. Well I popped/drained it and when it would scab over I would pick at it and so on and so forth. Well its been almost a month and the scab has gotten bigger, all to the point of it looking like I have a herpe on my mouth 😒. My mom has been telling me to put coconut oil on it, and I have been for a week but I feel like it's been drying it out more. I CAN'T EVEN EAT WITHOUT THE SCAB SPLITTING OPEN AND IT'S KILLING ME. HELP.