Help he thinks I'm a catfish tf

Let me just start by saying I'm not a catfish but am young and seeing him is easier said than done he lives far and I don't have a vehicle and don't know how to drive he doesn't have a iPhone so no FaceTime and anything else we haven't tried he is a little insecure so he doesn't pressure me to do see him but we have been talking for years what should I do ??? I don't know if I'm gonna like him anymore once I see him I think that's what he is afraid of also but it's time