Hello ladies, so I have been with my bf for 3 years and in these 3 years we had our ups and downs. My bf had one best friend for 19.5 years and that friend is a real amazing guy, but recently (like a year ago) he started to be closer to another guy that I really started not to like. Because he makes this one more than a priority in his life. He stopped working because this new friend doesn't work too, so they spend every day at home together, and when his new friend has appointments at the doctor he goes with him, when he wants to go shopping he goes with him, whenever he goes and whatever he does he goes with him. BUT!! He doesn't go out with me to any place because he says that he is lazy to do so. So I do everything alone. We meet once in two weeks, and when we do, we only sit in the car to talk and make out, and we go to a hotel and spend the night once in two months. We text all the day long. But what really hurts me is that I started to feel that he doesn't like spending time with me, and maybe he is ashamed to go out with me because I'm fat. And what hurts me even more is that even though I tried to talk to him about what I really feel, he said that I'm right, but nothing changed.