My husband and I have been together 5 years (though some days it feels much much longer) and we have 2 amazing babies (3 yrs and 1 yr) so they are little bit that's not my question. We have been going through a really tough time and I don't know what my limit should be I mean in all honesty it's been more tough times then good but the good times are great I just don't know if it's worth it. We are young probably too young for the life we have but I'm doing what needs to be done but he's not he still acts like he's 17 with no responsibility and now he wants to have a 3rd baby (he threw away my birth control) I want to continue my career.. Omw to becoming a nurse looking for a pct position to cover tuition. I told him things need to change but they haven't. I mean he's never really listened but now it's almost like he's doing it to see where my limits are or maybe push me away but if that was it why would he want another baby? I asked my mom, cause you know every girl needs here now and again, and she says maybe he's just trying to hold me back and keep me "on the same level" but I want to be able to afford the things my children need. I don't think we would've made it this far without the kids but I grew up in a broken home and don't want my kids to go through that. I just need some advice.