I've been using the softcups for awhile now. I love that you only have to change every 12 hours and u can have sex while wearing one. (Although my fiancée and I tried it once and he didn't like it. He said it felt weird but, I think it's all in his head.) Anyways, I love these but, I am really considering moving to a reusable option. Which brands do u ladies like? I'm a little worried about the fit too. I just had a baby and Im waiting for my period to come back still to even see if softcups still fit me well. Any ladies who use cups who have also had a baby?