Rant & frustration

This week a friend of mine's daughter way born & I couldn't be happier for him, he's an amazing dad❤ but the mother (his ex-fiance) pisses me off to no end! She is an alcoholic & drug addict, who drank, smoked weed, did coke, and ecstasy well into her third trimester 😤 she tried to hide it from the doctors, and my friend not willing to watch talked to the doctors concerned about how itll hurt his daughter, which got CAS involved. In the end he now has full custody, but she still gets unsupervised visits. What infuriates me is I have lost 2 babies now doing everything right, & suffer from infertility, yet someone who doesn't take an ounce of care during their pregnancy, harms their child, & doesn't even try to seek help for their addictions, gets to have their baby 😞 Im thankful that so far the baby has been passing all tests with flying colours and is in perfect health ❤ just so frustrated because Ive seen this time and time again now