I just want to say something let me know what you think

My mom has always said that if and when someone gets married they become one.

So say if my mom invited me out, she will invite me and my husband together.

If she made food and brought some over she will bring both of us some because she says its rude just to bring her daughter food. Get me?

Well its kind of upsetting how my husband's mother

Does the opposite. If she cooks something she will give some to my husband but never offers me. She invited him out to dinner in front of my face but just him.. Idk it actually upsets me. At the fact that my husband's ok with it...he acts like its fine that I don't get to be involved. I would never do that to him because its rude...Idk maybe I'm just over reacting.